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does a guy decide when to shoot his sperm? Is it like when you pee? You just cum when you want to? How does it work and how do you switch from peeing to releasing sperm? I always wanted to know this. Also can you actually feel the sperm go up inside you? Thanks. You can answer here or just send me a message. Obviously I haven't done anything like this and I am not ashamed. But I am curious! :

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Hello bunny!

Guys have two tubes inside them, much like the throat, in that when a man becomes aroused a little gate flicks across and closes off the passage to the bladder and instead opens up the path to the testicles so sperm can come out when he orgasms. Kind of like a traffic light telling who can go and who has to stop. For this reason a lot of men find it very difficult to urinate while they have an erection (I can't do it at all if I am hard... but some can).

As for 'deciding' to come.... not really. There is no real decision. As a woman, if you have had an orgasm you would know that it builds up inside you and eventually erupts into a climax. It is very much the same for men, only the time from arousal to climax can be a vast amount shorter. I have found that where women 'chase' an orgasm (some have to actively try to climax) most men have to try to not climax. I found one of the hardest things, when I first started having sex, was to make sure I didn't come before my partner... and believe me for a t e e n a g e r it is VERY VERY hard not to cum when your dick is inside a woman/man. But it all comes with practice.

It is strange that the anatomies of the opposite sex are so foreign. I blame social opinions on sex for the vast lack of understanding and sexual knowledge among people today. Sex shouldn't be a nasty/dirty/private thing... it should be a celebrated act. It should be enjoyed and explored without barriers. But that is for another post.....

Have fun!

NOTE: had to spell t e e n a g e r like that because the forums censored it otherwise. I guess that is to stop perverts and sex offenders or something (which I fully support)

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[quote="theotherother"] For this reason a lot of men find it very difficult to urinate while they have an erection (I can't do it at all if I am hard... but some can). [/quote]

It's easy as long as you've got the space to do a handstand in front of the pan!

I can't control when I'm going to cum, although I expect a number of partners I've been with had wished otherwise. There are some things that can delay it: thinking about dead cats always seems to work for me, but I'd rather not spoil the moment if I can help it. If your man's about to cum too soon, get off him or whatever, and hold the head of his cock in your fist, quite tight, for a few seconds. Let the moment pass then get him to start again. RInse and repeat as necessary. Trust me, once you've stopped him a couple of times, when you finally let him go for it, it'll be better for both (or all) of you!


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All of what have been said before is very true....so much so that there is very little i can add.....other than patience on the womans part can play a big part in helping her partner control his moment of joy......the faster he cums the less he enjoys sex....so by criticizing him or remarking in a negative way will make him more self conscious & therefore he will have worse problem....it will end with none of you being happy.....time + patience is the key....enjoy

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Action reaches a peak when nerves and blood vessels get worked up to reach orgasm, then cum shoots. It is possible to slightly postpone it by immediately shifting mind to some other aspect, but dick gets shortened, again the process of jerking has to start. By practice it can be postponed 2-3 times, but it affects the nerves. Idea

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As Rajoo has said, you can delay the cum in the beginning by slowing down when you feel you are about to reach the point of no return. Then you can start again and build yourself up to that state again. It takes practice. But once you reach the point of no return you have to just relax and cum. You can't hold it back anymore. So if your man keeps slowing down, be patient with him. He is trying to prolongue the pleasure for both of you.

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heres a tip from my hubby this is what makes him last longer....

my hubby says " imagine you are swimming naked in the ocean and theres a shark looking at your dick" it works for him lol

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All of what has been said above is very true. For those who want to prolong the enjoyment of making love and or sexual stimulation you should consider using some of the same therapies that are used to treat Premature Ejaculation. The Start Stop method or the Stop and Squeeze Method work very well. If either method is practiced for awhile it will result in a fairly permanent change in the length of time your male partner can enjoy stimulation before cumming. I've found that prolonging or delaying the actual climax also increases it's power and sensation, and it seems to increase the amount and the convince of my jiz. I suggest you do a key word search on 'premature ejacultaion treatment' and read-up on it, and the therapies.

Another thing, quickies are nice, but because we are creatures of habit if you always engage in hurried sex you will gravitate toward abbreviating the length of time you can stay aroused without cumming. So if you are trying to lengthen the period of arousal, relax. Have sex frequently so your not too horny when you finally do it, and take it slow and easy until you get to the point where you can go for long periods of time.

Also, to ease your mind, professional pornstars take DO NOT APPROVE and movies are shot in "sessions" and edited, some of the male actors have a dysfunction that makes it impossible for them to cum at all, others are abnormal in that it takes them very long to cum and they would make a normal lady very sore and bored. Don't believe everybody fucks for hours on end just because you've seen it in commercial porn flicks.

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When I take *****, I find that I can control when I come. I can feel the sperm moving up my cock, but I can hold back the ejaculation until I relax and let it happen. It is very different from not using *****. Without, the orgasm sneaks up and sometimes hits you from behind.

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i am able to control my orgasms to some degree. usually can slow down and hold one off a couple times, takes practice and patience with a partner. also guess i'm lucky as my erection doesn't go down to limp condition very fast, can often maintain penetration after an orgasm and sometimes have a second orgasm if we both want to keep at it.

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i get to the point where im starting to cum then stop and dont move will usally shoot a load but not get that feeling of cuming then i can go for a long time. my wife says i do good compared to the women she works with. made my day

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I myself use thoughts of dead puppies to keep from cuming, Good rule of thumb do not repeat this while fucking cuz the ladies really dpn't get into the "dead puppy" chant... I dunno

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I can agree with most things here but personally I must be very fortunate to be able to hold my cum for hours on end or cum as quickly as is needed. Not being boastful just factual. When we do anal I can never cum in her because its so tight that my cock is strangled and always have to withdraw.
Friend of mine who suffered from PE told me that his way of slowing down was to imagine MAGGIE TATCHER HAVING A SHIT!

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You do feel the sperm filling up inside the dick just before
Orgasm. I like the start stop method or edging. There is always a lot if precum with this method. The moment I decide to cum, the penis fills with sperm, which is a great feeling, about 3 or 4 seconds worth, then muscles in the penis involuntarily contract and sperm shoots out in big spurts. The amazing thing is it just happens. At this point either during sex or masterbating it's all automatic. The only choice is slowing down before reaching that point of no return. But to answer the question about feeling it fill up inside, it's really just right before cumming that you can feel the sperm and semen filling up in your shaft seconds before shooting it in several large satisfying spurts.[/list]

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