You may not understand this blog, but it makes me feel better to write it - as I might be the only one that knowns who and what I am personally referring to.

It amazes me that someone would stoop so low and harrass, exploit, and try to intimidate another. It came to my mind recently, this person might be so sad, lonely, has no friends, been rejected many times, had a bad upbringing, or maybe they were even abused themselves - that the only way they can feel better is to lash out on someone else. They will try to make another person feel low and ashamed, intimidate them to the point of fear, and exploit them beyond reason.

What ever the case may be, the focus always falls to the victim - when the real focus should go back to the orginal person inflicting the abuse. I'm not saying the victim doesn't need help - I'm saying its about time we stand up to the source. In the so called "real life" the victim does have rights to prosecute and the abuser is given the rights to a fair trial. In the "internet life" the victim has limited rights and the abuser/predator gets away so they can continue with another unknowing victim. HMMM something is odd about this scenerio.

I have been given permission by Yuvutu administration to pass on a warning. My message is simple....use caution and think twice before turning on your webcam to strangers. Even if you consider the other person someone trustworthy . . things can and do go wrong. You can be secretly taped and put on sites without your knowledge or permission. There are programs (even free ones)  that can take snap shots and even videos of you straight from your cam. Someone can make a mess out of your life and quickly. There are far too many bad people in this world. 

If sites such as yuvutu is your choice, you are in for some luck. Yuvutu tries to make this a fair site for all. They do listen to your concerns - I know this first hand. Someone has taken videos and pictures of me and has placed them on Yuvutu and others sites with horrible descriptions. A former boy/girl friend and or a former spouse might feel the need for revenge. I do believe it takes a certain type of person to cause someone else such pain - more than likely they have some mental issues and feel the need to show their power because of their own insecurity. 

It doesn't matter if you are female or male - it can happen to you.  I would like to recommend, as you browse this site, if you find anything that seems odd to you - inform the moderators/admin so they can check it out. Some have suggested wearing a mask - that might help you feel safe, but after awhile I think you begin to feel comfortable that others are honest, or today you dont care - but later you just might care and have some regrets.

Enjoy your site here and help to keep it as it was meant. If you havent read the "terms of use" for Yuvutu, you can find it at the bottom of each page - do read it so you are informed. Be safe.

A FALSE FRIEND IS WORSE THAN AN OPEN ENEMY